Have you ever started out with intentions or plans to do something and met obstacles, got redirected, or maybe even realized the intentions or plans were really not worth pursuing? We started out this post with the intent to go a different direction, but circumstances and resources changed, which made us reconsider not necessarily the topic, but the approach. Life can be this way, and Lent is a great time to reassess our intentions and plans, as well as our methods of going about them and following through. We thought we’d share some things we observed about Lent in this week’s post.
“Lent is a healing journey.” -Sr. Miriam James Heidland
Theme of the Week: Reconsider Please
Our theme of the week started when we had an emergency situation that totally changed our schedules and expectations for the week. While the emergency was definitely not fun to deal with, it did offer some perspectives to consider, as well as unplanned extra time to reflect and be thankful for what we have in life.
As part of our reflecting, we read from Max Lucado’s book Let the Journey Begin. In all honesty, the original plan was to read the book later, but the title matched one of the themes of Lent (being on a journey) so well that we reconsidered and jumped right in to the pages. This led to a number of wonderful revelations and relatable stories, all very timely and appropriate for Lent (and really any time or season of one’s life).
Lucado uses real stories from his life, combined with scripture readings and questions to help guide the reader to a better mindset. His honesty and willingness to share real life examples allow the reader to feel as if they are not alone (and really, none of us are alone, for we have God eagerly waiting for us to allow Him to walk with us on our journey), and there is still hope to be found both within us and our surroundings, whether or not we complete our best intentions.
In addition to the book, there was a day when I debated about going for a run given the temperatures were close to frigid and the winds were Arctic. Given the nature of the emergency we dealt with prior, I was hesitant to go, but honestly hate (yes, it is a strong word, but appropriate in this case) to miss an opportunity to run. The inner part of me is always willing to go, as are the inner child and adult. However, the adult mindset has a tendency to create paralysis by analysis. After a few minutes of inner arguing, I finally said the heck with it and whispered, “Lord be with me,” as I headed out the door.
While the weather was not inviting at all, the experience of the quiet in nature after the noise I had dealt with during the emergency situation earlier in the week felt most welcoming (and needed). My intent was to only go about three miles, but I ended up going closer to eight miles. Originally, I was going to pray as I ran, but ended up just listening and observing nature. The experience was uplifting despite not being able to feel my hands or feet for several miles. The lesson learned was that reconsidering and going with one’s natural tendencies sure beats waiting around for a “right” moment.
“The only mistake is to not risk making one.” -Max Lucado
Lesson of the Week: Value Without Money
Our lesson of the week came via a reflection on values that was written by Randy Woodley. In the reflection, Woodley lists the following values as ways to reconnect and build healthy lifestyles:
- Respect (for everyone and everything)
- Harmony (with people and nature)
- Friendship (the true, honest kind)
- Humor (laughing at oneself)
- Equality (all voices count)
- Authenticity (speaking from the heart)
- History (learning from the past; living in the moment, but able to look back)
- Balance (of work and rest)
- Generosity (sharing what one has)
- Accountability (recognizing the interconnectedness we share)
Reviewing this list of values may be a way to help measure where one is on the Lenten journey and in life. Our values act as guides for us and straying too far from them in either direction can lead to some tough consequences. If we make it a practice to evaluate AND take action to rectify any issues we discover, we not only are able to work through our issues, but also find freedom and grace.
Perhaps one of the greatest beauties of Lent is finding freedom through God’s grace. The practices and traditions of Lent offer much to reflect upon, reasons to set aside time to reflect and learn, and rewards for taking the time to be with God.
“Search me, O God, and know my heart today; try me, O Savior, know my thoughts, I pray. See if there be some wicked way in me; cleanse me from every sin and set me free.” -J. Edwin Orr
Sight of the Week: Hyacinth Peek
Our sight of the week was the discovery of hyacinth shoots popping up from the bulbs beneath the mulch in the landscape bed. This sight always reminds me of my late grandmother, who loved flowers in general, but was partial to her hyacinths, peonies, and geraniums. The memories that come along with seeing these bulb shoots act as reminders of where I was, where I am now, and where I have yet to go in life.
Lent is much like the hyacinth bulbs. It starts slowly with the traditions of Ash Wednesday, then grows week by week through forty days to the climax of Holy Week with the ultimate flowering of Easter. We may also be like the hyacinth bulbs at times in our lives, peeking up from moments of slumber, then slowly growing and finally seeing the flower or fruits of our labor.
“Contentment is not the fulfillment of what you want, but the realization of how much you already have.” -Anonymous
Thoughts This Week: Perspectives Seen
We came across the following words this week, which offer aspects to consider for both Lent and life.
“Straight tribulation is easier to bear than tribulation that advertises itself as pleasure.” -C.S. Lewis
“Inspiration is for amateurs; the rest of us just show up and get to work.” -Chuck Close
“For where your treasure is, there your heat will be also.” -Matthew 6:21
May we come to see Lent as not a season for giving up things, but rather a time of freedom to explore and discover. May we open our hearts and minds to see the challenges before us as chances to learn and grow, and may find what we are seeking.
Seeking
Seeking meaning is my soul,
Believing it can hold
On with the heart
To the dawn past the dark
Of sin and despair
To begin anew and repair
What God has made
Through His awe and grace.
Seeking healing is my heart
In nature’s peeling apart
Of the clouds and skies of gray,
By the ground as it breaks
To soak up the sun
As the days grow and spring comes.
Seeking the inner child is my Lord,
To set free and move forth
With positivity and peace
In the tranquility of time’s seas
Past the waves upon the rocks
And the days when I was not
Able to understand or listen well
But through His forgiveness, have better dealt
Pressing onward in the journey
Letting Him turn me
Into who I am meant to be
As a gift back to Him from me.
-Lisa A. Wisniewski
A Note of Thanks
Our thanks this week goes out to the many friends and family members who helped us with the emergency situation we spoke of at the beginning of this post. Thank you all for your support and encouragement, which helped us to navigate the circumstances with a better mindset.
-Lisa, Leo, and Lena