Spring has finally started to emerge in our area with a number of blooming trees, shrubs, bulbs, and flowers. The landscape is now dotted with pockets of white, pink, purple, blue, red, and yellow blooms. These colors combined with the now ultra-green grass in the fields and lawns make it appear as if nature and God are coloring, creating their own pictures to share with anyone willing to look. The colors have been especially encouraging after the number of gray, cool, wet days and nights in our area. With sunrise at 6:21 AM and sunset at 8:15 PM, we have more daylight to do our activities, a most welcome change for our household, and like the flowers coming around, we are starting to bloom and grow in our perspective of life. We thought we’d share some of our learnings in this week’s post.
“Change is inevitable. Growth is optional.” –John Maxwell
Theme of the Week: Gathering Seeds
Our theme of the week started in our reflection readings about gathering disciples, faith, and strength for the journey that remains. We also noticed clouds, animals, and plants gathering in groups among the landscape features during out time outdoors. One day while running, I watching the sun unfold through the clouds as if God was asking every creature watching to come into the light. It was an awesome, uplifting sight after several long stretches of clouds in our area.
This theme continued at work while trying to assist some coworkers, all with different levels of understanding on the topics at hand. By listening to each person’s input, I was able to devise a way to communicate on a variety of levels what was expected or required. Granted, it was a frustrating task at times, trying to get everyone on the same page. It was during one very frustrating moment that I realized God was helping me gather my faith to continue onward.
My dog Lena also gave us some thoughts on gathering as well. She took off twice this past week and I had to go after her both on foot and in the Jeep, chasing her all over the property. What possessed her to do this is beyond my understanding, especially since I don’t know many people who would put up with her less than stellar puppy behavior at times. However, she does what she does, and though Leo and I try our best with her, we apparently fall short. This leads Lena to taking off and then we have to gather our resources to catch her and keep her safe. This is not how I had hoped our relationship would be, for I had my share of chasing four legged friends through the neighborhood with my late dog, Luke. As fate and God would have it, I apparently have not chased enough and still need to work on building character while running my tail off to catch Lena.
“Once we accept our limits, we go beyond them.’ –Albert Einstein
Lesson of the Week: Letting Life Be
Our lesson of the week came as we accepted some changes that we had hoped we would not have to encounter. We have a number of people in our inner circle going through a variety of issues, and as we try our best to be supportive, hopeful, or whatever it is we feel we should be to these people, we realize we cannot change them or the world or the circumstances. However, we can change our perspective, which has the power to make or break both us and them.
In our household, we try our best each day, but often fall short of the goal. This is very disappointing given the effort put forth. Lately, we have started to understand that is not the effort or the comparison of our efforts to the efforts of others that matters. What matters is we try. There is so much value in trying, be it on a personal, spiritual, physical, mental, emotional, or other level. Perhaps what the world needs is to accept what is and then try to move on instead of defying, denying, protesting, fighting, or enraging someone else with the response to any given situation.
The exclamation point of this lesson came while talking with a friend about the values we have and hold and try to impart on others. Though we may all at some point in our lives may have to agree to disagree, we need to respect the effort put forth and the fact not all efforts are created equal. This inequality should not equate to inferiority, but rather to respect for the facts that are and will be true no matter how much we try to change or alter them.
Like the flowers coming around to blooming this time of year, we are all different. We all have our good and less than stellar traits of character the add color to us. Any combination of us creates a bouquet with the potential to be beautiful in a variety of ways.
“Bad times have scientific value. These are occasions a good learner would not miss.” –Ralph Waldo Emerson
Song of the Week: Together We Shall Be
Our song of the week is a favorite hymn that came to mind while reading our reflections Sunday morning. The hymn was one I learned only about twenty years ago, but it became a huge part of my faith formation. The words and the melody of the music are soothing to the soul, as well as practical for any given time of life.
Gather Us In
Here in this place, new light is streaming,
now is the darkness, vanished away,
see, in this space, our fears and our dreamings,
brought here to you in the light of this day.
Gather us in, the lost and forsaken;
gather us in, the blind and the lame;
call to us now, and we shall awaken,
we shall arise at the sound of our name.
We are the young, our lives are a mystery;
we are the old, who yearn for your face,
we have been sung throughout all of history,
called to be light to the whole human race.
Gather us in, the rich and the haughty;
gather us in, the proud and the strong;
give us a heart so meek and so lowly,
give us the courage to enter the song.
Here we will take the wine and the water,
here we will take the bread of new birth,
here you shall call your sons and your daughters,
call us anew to be salt for the earth.
Give us to drink the wine of compassion,
give us to eat, the bread that is you;
nourish us well, and teach us to fashion
lives that are holy and hearts that are true.
Not in the dark of buildings confining,
not in some heaven light years away,
but here in this space, the new light is shining,
now is the kingdom, now is the day.
Gather us in, and hold us forever;
gather us in, and make us your own;
gather us in, all peoples together,
fire of love in our flesh and our bone.
(Written by Marty Haugen)
Science Lesson of the Week: What Are These?
Our science lesson of the week came as we tried to identify a flower on a bush along my running route. I’ve been trying to find out what this flowering bus is for years. While stopping to inspect closer, I noticed flowers on another bush with tiny hair-like structures sticking out among the blossoms. Now I had another question to explore in learning the name of these hair-like structures.
After a number of hours researching, we found the first bush is a flowering quince. Flowering quince is related to roses with thorny, mounding growth habits. The flowers last 10 to 14 days and are followed by green fruits that can be used to make preserves and jellies. Flowering quince grow in full sun, attract humming birds, and prefer acidic or more neutral soil PH levels.
The hair like structures on the other bush I observed are called filaments, and they have heads on the ends of them called anthers. Together, they make up the stamen, which is the pollen producing part of the plant, tree, or shrub.
So, now we know more about our little and our larger environment. In gathering observations and information, we have gained knowledge that will help us now and in the future. All it took was taking a moment to stop, look, and then read. Stop, look, and read are all small words with huge impacts in life. These words are also words that imply gathering of some sort. If we stop, we gather moments in time, information, insight, or perspective. If we look, we gather images, facts, details, or other components that help us ask and answer questions. If we read, we open up our minds, hearts, and souls to new worlds, ideas, concepts, theories, stories, and life lessons.
“Try to learn something about everything and everything about something.” -Thomas Huxley
Words of the Week: A Little Variety
Our words of the week from the Daily Word devotional included: pray, free, protected, supportive, oneness, and power. As we learn to pray, we find an inner sense of being free. This free aspect of life has the potential to make us feel protected. Our sense of protection allows us to be supportive to and for others in our lives. This leads to an aspect of oneness with our community or environment. This oneness has the power to overcome the misadventures of life. These words are like the flowers in the landscape coming around. Each has its own season, characteristics, and offerings for us to bloom and grow in our own time.
May we find the flowers in our lives to be bouquets for hope. May the colors and textures of the blooms lead us to knowledge and wisdom, and may we come to see ourselves as flowers coming around.
Flowers Coming Around
April’s days have departed
And May has just started
To take shape
Graced by the sun’s rays
In the early morn
Across the landscape adorned
With dots of color near and far
And spots that shelter the heart
Of the season running without sound
In the flowers coming around.
Pink of the azalea, bleeding heart, and cherry blossom
Wink in the regalia they have upon them
As the tulip, daffodil, phlox, and red bud
Fill up the hills not to be outdone
Beneath the blue, blue skies
Leading on, in, and through this life
Where the colors come to be
Part of the stellar sea
Humming a resound
With the flowers coming around.
Near and far across the miles
Hear the heart of nature’s smiles
In the leaves and stems
That reach to extend
Inspiration and hope
Through tribulation and unknown
So that one can learn to see
The love of God eternally
Offered in the dove’s wooing sound
Above the flowers coming around.
-Lisa A. Wisniewski
A Note of Thanks
Our thanks this week goes out to our friend, Joyce B. for sharing her insights on some of the above topics. We thank her for always being willing to share and impart knowledge, wisdom, and life experiences with us.
-Lisa, Leo, and Lena